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Aphasia

Aphasia affects language after damage to the brain, most often following a stroke. Thinking stays whole, as do memories and intelligence, but the link between what a person wants to say and the words they produce no longer works as before. Depending on the case, what is missing is the words to speak, the understanding of what is said to them, reading or writing, sometimes several at once.

For those around them, the most disconcerting part lies in a contrast: the person is fully present, attentive, and yet sentences come out short, hesitant, or with one word for another. Finding the right term can take long seconds, and a fast conversation quickly becomes exhausting to follow.

A person with aphasia can stare at a spoon, know exactly what object it is, what it is for, in which drawer it belongs, and not manage to bring out its name. The word is there, just behind, and it is blocked. A few minutes later, that same word may come back on its own, with no effort at all.

This mechanism explains many misunderstandings. People sometimes lower their voice in front of a person with aphasia, speak to them as if to a child, answer in their place. None of this is necessary: most often it is enough to give them time, and to accept that an exchange may take a few detours to arrive at the same place.

What aphasia really changes in an exchange

Aphasia never presents twice in the same way. Some people understand everything but struggle to produce words, others speak with ease but grasp poorly what is said to them, others again stumble mainly over reading or numbers. One day can be easier than the last, with fatigue, noise or stress weighing heavily on the availability of words.

What is at stake then is not only practical. Having to repeat a need 3 times, seeing the listener grow impatient or finish their sentences, giving up on speaking in a group: these situations end up pushing away from conversation people who are entirely able to take part in it.

What helps day to day

A few simple habits change a great deal:

  • speaking normally, at a steady pace, in short sentences and one idea at a time;
  • allowing real response time, without filling the silences or finishing the sentences;
  • drawing on writing, drawing, gestures, pictograms or a photo to support the missing word;
  • checking that you have understood by rephrasing, rather than piling on questions.

Many of these adjustments assume that those around know, from the start, how aphasia shows up in this particular person. Being able to pass on these few pointers once and for all, instead of explaining them again to each new listener, relieves the person concerned as much as those close to them.

Possible accommodations

Needs vary from one person with aphasia to another, but a few adjustments come up often.

  • At school: instructions given one at a time, both spoken and written, extra time and the use of visual aids; a PAP (a school support plan for students with specific needs, in France) or a PPS (an individualised schooling plan, in France) can formalise these adjustments.
  • At work: meetings prepared in advance, written minutes, the option to reply by message rather than out loud; RQTH (official recognition of disability status, in France), via the MDPH (the local disability office), grants access to workstation adjustments.
  • In daily life: people warned of the time needed, calm environments for important exchanges, and aids such as a notebook, pictures or a phone to show rather than tell.

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Aphasia explained to a Child

0–12 years old

Aphasia is when words get lost inside your head. Imagine someone who knows exactly what they want to say, but the words don't come out the way they usually do. Sometimes they get mixed up, sometimes they go missing.

It's a bit like the road between the brain and the mouth has a big pothole: the message is there, but it has trouble getting through.

  • The person might make up words or look for other ones
  • They talk more slowly, in little bits
  • Sometimes they have trouble understanding if you talk too fast

But remember: the person is still smart and can feel emotions just fine. It's just the words that are stuck, not the thinking.

Real cases: Aphasia

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Adult with aphasia after a stroke, 58 years old
Partner → Doctor, emergency staff, pharmacist
The other person understands that the individual cannot speak but understands everything, and adapts how they communicate instead of treating them as unable.

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